Wednesday 10 July 2013

Talking IVF

We were scheduled to visit the FS in March 2013 to discuss IVF, although i postponed until May as i had managed to secure full time work for the majority of March & April (as compared to my regular 2 days per week work) and figured that we really needed the work to be able to save up for IVF.

So i worked my butt off and paid off the credit card and really got us into a position to be able to slightly afford it.

We had taken private hospital cover out in January, so had a 12 month waiting period on fertility treatment - not that the private cover saves you much in Australia anyhow.

So all was going to plan and we had our appointment with the FS and also one of the nurses at the end of May. We decided that we were going to be going ahead with treatment and that the nurses would contact me in early July (my FS was going to be on holiday in Paris in June - lucky man!!) and arrange for my medications to be sent to me. During the second week of July when i hadn't heard from them, i decided to phone. I knew that i was supposed to start my medication when my period started and it was only a few days away.

They were a little confused when i rang and said they would talk to my FS and phone me back.

Well, apparently the nurse that i had seen had completely mucked up the process that they were going to use on me!! I thought it was going to be a Flare Cycle although now i was being told it was going to be a Down Regulation Cycle.

Before that phone call I had my hopes up that things were finally going to be happening and we were much closer to having another baby, although this change made me feel like things were being taken out of our reach again!! I was told that my FS preferred this process and that he had far better results from it, so i took that as some comfort.

Then the process began...